January 31, 2026

WE ADOPTED THIS 3 YEAR OLD BOY just days before Christmas, and when we took this photo, we had no idea what we were about to discover. He sat quietly in front of the tree, wearing a simple gray sweater, his bright blue eyes staring straight into the camera

He didn’t step into our home so much as haunt its edges, a child-shaped shadow testing whether walls could be trusted not to move. We watched him memorize exits, inventory cupboards, hover between hunger and hesitation. Every flinch was a story he couldn’t yet speak. We learned to lower our voices, announce our approach, place food where he could see it and leave it, untouched, without consequence. Safety, for him, wasn’t a feeling; it was data collected over days, then weeks.

What changed him wasn’t a single moment, but a thousand quiet repetitions. The same face at school pickup. The same blanket folded at the end of his bed. The same answer—“You’re safe”—offered without demand that he believe it. Slowly, his questions grew longer than his silences. One night, he fell asleep without guarding the door. That was the day we realized healing doesn’t look like fireworks. It looks like a child finally resting, convinced the world will still be there when he wakes.

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